As some will say, life is almost like a foot ball game, you won’t go far unless you know where the goal posts are. Finding that one precious thing can actually make your life worthwhile and in most cases finding it is not the hard part, but knowing what it is.
We all assume marriage is the ultimate, getting married don’t just end one’s problems, No, it is just another step that takes you forward to your future, what makes it so different is that it involves commitment of a life time, this singular factor differentiate it from every other steps we take in life and makes it so important that we take the right step with the right person in the right direction at the right time.
This is why before you say the ‘I do’ you think about the commitment first, nobody wants to get married with the intention of getting divorce afterward, we all want to live happily ever after with our spouse.
So it is only fair we know that the ever after is not always so happy, we prepare ourselves for whatever comes because when we put our hand in the plough, there is no looking back, preparing yourself for problems, difficulties only make us strong enough to face them when they come.
Having in mind that, the man/woman you are marring today, will make you cry as well as laugh. It is important that you realize yourself before you commit to a life time agreement. you don’t see marriage as the be it all and end it all because sincerely it is just another positive step in the right direction, with someone you know (not think) will help you grow, blossom and fly, it is like recognizing the fact that at this point in your life, you can’t do it all alone and you need some to propel, encourage, love and respect you, it doesn’t mean your problems are finished when u get married, it only means you have someone to share them with, someone who will help(not carry it alone) and support you to be who you are and who you will wholeheartedly do the same for.