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With all the hustling and bustling, the commotion and challenges, women tend to forget that they don’t just exist but should also lives. Between marriage, family and kids, they find little or no time for themselves, some are satisfied being a full time house wife, good! There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you are happy and get some satisfaction doing that, but the truth is at some point you get tired of living your live for your kids and husband, that is when frustration sets in.
We are all born, both male and female, to live and become somebody, just because woman have strong heart and are able to absorb more doesn’t make them invincible or infallible, discovering yourself and pursuing our goals doesn’t make us selfish, the way we do that is what actually does.
Planning our family life with our needs and goals included in the plan makes is easier for us to execute the plan without any part suffering. In all, your goals and dreams matter but family matter the most, so you can actually satisfy them both effectively if you plan well.Woman are said to be the weaker sex, and our life is suppose to revolve round a man, wrong! Wrong!
People fail to realize that we too have goals, aspirations, dreams, just like most men, we too hunger for something other than family and kids, and the fact that we most times don’t have them, it is not enough that we live a life of a mytre, killing our own dreams to satisfy a man.
No!, it only makes us miserable, and how long do you want to be miserable? For the rest of your life? Listen, there is nothing wrong with pursuing your dream too, it is not being selfish and definitely does not mean you are sacrificing your family, the answer is just knowing what you want and working deligently towards it, you have to start from somewhere no matter how small and make it grow into something bigger and better, in as much as it is what you want, you will be driven by your desire.
You must realize that your fulfillment in life is dependent on your becoming and doing what you were born to be and do.Don’t know how big your dreams are but I tell you, for whatsoever reason, don’t be afraid to dream big and note that great dreams requires time and it will take you a long time to become the person you want to be, so doing what you born to do only makes the journey enjoyable.
Success, especially for women takes a lot more than experience, it also takes sacrifies, patience and guts, lots and lots of guts, as they say it’s a man’s worlds so you need a lot of guts to make it as a woman in a man’s world. We should not be scared with the fact that we are regarded as the weaker sex; instead we should use that as a weapon to our own advantage.
No matter how though the situation may be we should always realize that the future is too good to be ignored and every end is a new beginning.Fear is one of the strongest enemies of success, once you can overcome that you can overcome anything.
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