It is important to know note that tat it is only 1% of married men who have affairs leave their wives, and many men cheat on their wives. Of course you re concerned and want to know if that guy you just met who’s coming on to you so deligently and delightfully is married before you get involved. But how can you be so sure he isn’t married and just fooling around?.
Do not be deceived, make no mistake and don’t over trust your instinct…married men who are fooling around can be wonderfully attentive and romantic. He can spend a whole day emailing you calling you with his cell phone, by implication, filling your ever hungry and lowly heart with the widest emotional and psychological affirmations you ve ever dreamed of,showering you with gifts, and making rapturous love to you when you get together.
If you‘ve ever have such experienced it, you will wonder how a man could do that to his wife. it is important to be aware and delude yourself.
· 1. This article does not promote people that are extremely suspicious.if you ‘re generically suspect every man you meet of this,it’s a prejudice and not worth much.however ,if you suddenly get suspicious about the individual man you ‘re dealing with,then trust instincts.where there’s smoke there’s fire.
· 2 His tone of voice gets guarded or he won’t make eye contact and is evasive when certain topics come up like family,children ,vacation,where he lives.
· 3 He insists that all contact be on his terms only.he gives some reason why you must onlycall him at work or on his cell.disregard the REASONS they can be ingenious about this and if you re love-daffy,you will find a way to rationalize his particular excuse,don’t do this for cheating men.
· 4 You ask for his home phone number and he refuses to give it to you.again disregard the” reason”.
· 5 His heart is not online.you sense an imbalance of vulnerability,and this is intuitive.when two available people are dating,both presumably are anxious for it to work out,and are equally at-risk.when you re for keeps and he’s just playing,he wont care as much about how you re getting along.he has the security of marriage and nothing to lose but an exciting good time.
· 6 There’s a white line on the fourth finger of his left hand,a tan-line from where his wedding ring usually is,and is not when he’s with you.or there’s the outline of a ring in his shirt pocket.
· 7 He isn’t fully disclosing when it would seem appropriate.he alludes to “things he’ll tell you about later.keeping you in suspense.
· 8 He gives strange reasons for not wanting to go to certain places (like your favourite restaurant).you first met him at a dance hall (where he’s known and someone might tell his wife) and after that every places he takes you to is in another county.(there’s a part of town he definitely avoids can guess why?.)
· 9 he seems strangely addicted to paying for restaurants, motels, resorts, and airplane tickets in cash rather than by credit card.
· 10 He is never available on Sundays. In some cultures, and with many men, Saturday night may be boys out, but Sunday is strictly “family time “ditto for holidays. this is peculiar male honor code;OK to cheat but not on july 4th that. that’s family time.