MUST READ: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’ t Tell You


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MUST READ: 8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’ t Tell You
Posted on: July 09, 2015, 11:29:29 PM
Whether a guy is just starting to date a
woman or is in a committed relationship
with her, there are small things that she
may do without thinking twice that guys
secretly love. While there are many, here
are eight to start.
1) Laying your head on his chest. When
laying on the couch watching TV or
laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of
the best feelings when a woman lays her
head down on your chest and puts her
arm over you. As men, we enjoy feeling
as though we are being protective, and
this signifies that she feels safe in our
2) When you text him first. There is a lot
of pressure on guys to always initiate
conversation. Sometimes he may not
know if he’s being too pushy or texting
too much — he might overthink it and
not text you at all, which could leave you
wondering. Guys like to feel affection
too, and if he’s really into you, he will be
thinking about you. Sending him a quick
text will brighten his day and spark a
good conversation.
3) When you tell him you appreciate him.
Some people are more affectionate than
others, and there’s nothing wrong with
however you are. Just remember, if a
man puts in a lot of effort into your
relationship (as he should), he will never
complain about hearing how much you
appreciate him. While he should be able
to read your feelings from your actions,
some guys need a more direct approach.
It will make him feel all warm and fuzzy
4) Play with his hair while he’s driving. I
didn’t realize how great this one was
until my girlfriend randomly did it one
day. If you’re riding shotgun, reach over
and lightly scratch the back of his head
for awhile. Guaranteed to make him
smile. (Don’t distract him too much
though, he’s driving!)
5) Brag about him on Facebook. Some
girls go overboard with this. Way
overboard. But, if your guy does
something nice for you, it never hurts to
talk about it or snap a photo of the
impromptu dinner he had arranged when
you got home from work. It will show
him that you appreciate him and are
willing to share your appreciation and
love for him with the world.
6) Really listen. Women know better than
anyone that really listening isn’t just a
passive activity. It’s actually an action
and it takes effort. Sometimes a guy has
something important going on in his life,
is working towards a goal, or is just
stressed out about work. When you
really sit down, keep his eye contact and
become genuinely engaged in a
conversation about something important
to him, it will let him know you care
(even if he already does).
7) Text him when you’re out with your
friends. I’ve heard some really bad
stories about guys who are insanely
jealous or don’t “let” their girlfriend go
out with friends, and especially with
other guys. While I understand the
apprehension, a man should be secure
enough in his relationship (and trust his
girlfriend enough) to not worry every
second she is out without him. If you
have a man who is mature enough to tell
you to go have a good time, text him
every now and then during the course of
the night just saying hello. It will make
him smile and let him know that you’re
still thinking about him when you’re out.
8) Be affectionate. You don’t have to
jump on him in public, but small things
like taking his hand while you’re walking,
hugging him in line at the grocery store,
or hooking your arm into his as you walk
into a party, will make him feel close to
you and that you’re proud to be with
him. The little things go a long way