100% True love story you need to read

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100% True love story you need to read
Posted on: September 20, 2015, 05:40:19 PM
I lived a very religious life in
campus,and was not in any
relationship at all. After school,I
met this young handsome guy
in 2006.Sincerely,I felt I didn’t
not merit him because he is very
handsome,while I am on the
average beauty wise. The only
thing that attracted me to him
was the look.He was an hustler
and lived a low income life.
_
Throughout our courtship of
18months, He never gave me a
dime.I came from a financially
buoyant famiy,I therefore saw
no need in asking him for
anything,rather I was feeding
him with three square meal.We
got wedded in the year 2007,
and I gave him the flower of my
womanhood (virginity) but I
was not really excited for just no
reason.
_
My husband is a caring man,but
nags a lot.He nags about the
way I handle bathing soap,the
way you arrange plates in
kitchen, virtually everything.I
most often skip for fear each
time he wants to talk because I
believe he wants to complain
again.
_
I got a job before he did, but
one thing I discover is that my
husband spends his money
without thinking about
tomorrow and always depend
on my salary to survive the
family.In 2008,I gave birth to a
set of triplet,and had to quit
work to nurse my angels.He
was very supportive then.He
provided for all our needs and
life was good. In 2012, my
husband lost his job,I had to
take over the family expenses
again.I was running a masters
degree program,doing many
businesses,and still raising kids.
_
I travelled every week in a bid to
keep the family running.Each
time,I complain about the stress
I was passing through,he tells
me I am lazy,that many women
do more to sustain their families.
_
This is 2015,my husband
prefers to allow me or my dad to
pay the children tuition fee than
for him to hustle. I am 100%
responsible for the family
upkeep.Every biz you introduce
to my husband is downgrading
to him.I am currently on my PHd
degree,I am nursing a set of
triplet,and still work hard to
survive my family.
It is now that I realize that I
married my husband because of
his handsomeness,and that he
is mentally very shallow. My
husband thinks like a child and
has virtually no plan for his
family.
_
My simple advice for intending
wives is this, looks
(handsomeness or beauty) alone
is not enough to choose a
husband,marry a man that has
great vision for his life, not the
one that you will keep on
dragging up.
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Secondly, I believe my husband
puts all the family responsibility
on me because I was the one
feeding him when we were
dating.Please,let your guy
know from day one that you
need to be adored and taken
care of like a beautiful flower.
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To married men and women
there,did you make some
mistakes when choosing? Pls
share with intending husbands
and wives to help them make
informed decision.



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Re: 100% True love story you need to read
#1 Posted on: November 15, 2015, 11:44:21 AM
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Re: 100% True love story you need to read
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